We got 12 straight men to reveal what their first time trying. Straight guys reveal what its like to experiment with anal play 12 men tell all about the first. Anal sex is normal for some couples straight or gay and not for others. Whether you have anal sex depends on what makes you and your partner comfortable. Most people mean anal intercourse when they think of anal sex. It happens when a man puts his penis into another persons anus. Its not something thats on the menu all the time, so when its available, guys really want to put their penis in that pumpkin spice latte. anal sex is always the subject my straight buddies want to talk to me about. I rarely ask about their sex lives unless theyre asking me for advice, but they quite. Lots of straight men are turned off by the idea of anal play (to be fair, many bi and gay men are too), and as a result are missing out on a whole world of fun. If men feel like its shameful or even impossible to discuss receptive anal sex with their female partners, they might end up looking for it in some dark corners. Anal sex in general is linked to several health issues , primarily sexually transmitted infections including hiv aids, and ano-rectal trauma. she claims that a straight man having sex with other men reaffirms their straightness by showing that theyre comfortable with their straight sexuality, enough so to sleep with other men.